diff --git a/changelog.d/16127.bugfix b/changelog.d/16127.bugfix
index 0308fdfd45..9ce5f4a705 100644
--- a/changelog.d/16127.bugfix
+++ b/changelog.d/16127.bugfix
@@ -1 +1 @@
-User consent features cannot be enabled when using experimental MSC3861.
+User constent and 3-PID changes capability cannot be enabled when using experimental [MSC3861](https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-spec-proposals/pull/3861) support.
diff --git a/changelog.d/16134.bugfix b/changelog.d/16134.bugfix
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..9ce5f4a705
--- /dev/null
+++ b/changelog.d/16134.bugfix
@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+User constent and 3-PID changes capability cannot be enabled when using experimental [MSC3861](https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-spec-proposals/pull/3861) support.
diff --git a/synapse/config/experimental.py b/synapse/config/experimental.py
index d4cf9a0555..277ea4675b 100644
--- a/synapse/config/experimental.py
+++ b/synapse/config/experimental.py
@@ -223,6 +223,12 @@ class MSC3861:
                 ("session_lifetime",),
             )
 
+        if root.registration.enable_3pid_changes:
+            raise ConfigError(
+                "enable_3pid_changes cannot be enabled when OAuth delegation is enabled",
+                ("enable_3pid_changes",),
+            )
+
 
 @attr.s(auto_attribs=True, frozen=True, slots=True)
 class MSC3866Config:
diff --git a/synapse/config/registration.py b/synapse/config/registration.py
index df1d83dfaa..b8ad6fbc06 100644
--- a/synapse/config/registration.py
+++ b/synapse/config/registration.py
@@ -133,7 +133,16 @@ class RegistrationConfig(Config):
 
         self.enable_set_displayname = config.get("enable_set_displayname", True)
         self.enable_set_avatar_url = config.get("enable_set_avatar_url", True)
-        self.enable_3pid_changes = config.get("enable_3pid_changes", True)
+
+        # The default value of enable_3pid_changes is True, unless msc3861 is enabled.
+        msc3861_enabled = (
+            (config.get("experimental_features") or {})
+            .get("msc3861", {})
+            .get("enabled", False)
+        )
+        self.enable_3pid_changes = config.get(
+            "enable_3pid_changes", not msc3861_enabled
+        )
 
         self.disable_msisdn_registration = config.get(
             "disable_msisdn_registration", False
diff --git a/tests/config/test_oauth_delegation.py b/tests/config/test_oauth_delegation.py
index 35f7b85dc7..5c91031746 100644
--- a/tests/config/test_oauth_delegation.py
+++ b/tests/config/test_oauth_delegation.py
@@ -271,3 +271,8 @@ class MSC3861OAuthDelegation(TestCase):
         self.config_dict["session_lifetime"] = "24h"
         with self.assertRaises(ConfigError):
             self.parse_config()
+
+    def test_enable_3pid_changes_cannot_be_enabled(self) -> None:
+        self.config_dict["enable_3pid_changes"] = True
+        with self.assertRaises(ConfigError):
+            self.parse_config()